A MOMENTTO GIVE,SHARE,AND LESTIN TO CHILD

I feel it’s important for me to write about different personal experiences in how to give, share and listen to a child, especially if it’s the time of the international celebration for the universal day of the children.

This year it’s a different celebration for all the people in Sri Lanka. It’s the first time that they celebrate this occasion without war, killing, sadness… without all the words that could not draw a smile on a child’s face. It was a dark moment to share before, but now there is one way to happiness, to learn to improve your life. If you want to start a new hopeful life, then you have to forget all the bad past and put in front of your eyes a clear vision that giving up on life is impossible if there is still a breath in our hearts .

Solving your child’s behavior with love not anger, with help and needs… drama, dance, singing, and traditional folklore costumes were part and a big sector of how we can solve our behaviors with love in the YMCA in Trincomalee… Really it’s a very nice meaningful exhibition, dance and shows made by the children from their own creative thinking, a return to the creative civilization that they were born in.

Don’t worry what the child will become tomorrow if they will continue on this approach, the same as this active contribution through their works in the YMCAs.

Like the fruit children are sweetest just before they turn bad … and turning bad is very easy if you don’t have someone or the right person to tell you what is right and what is wrong in theis age. Also inform the child about his rights ,how to think about the difference between you and the others .

Children need love, especially when they don’t deserve it… In my opinion this is not a rule, but it helps to get good obedience guys in the future. Sri Lanka needs hard work with the child starting from the knowledge that … the children have a right called “ knowing your rights “ and ending with a kind of practical practicing their rights on the ground. Before going to make development in such a field it’s important to keep power control and many children do not find food to eat .